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July 1, 2015 15 Comments

Rest – A Gift from the Sea

Rest: a gift from the sea

The Beach is not the place to work; to read, write or think. I should have remembered that from other years. Too warm, too damp, too soft for any real mental discipline or sharp flights of spirit. One never learns. Hopefully, one carries down the faded straw bag, lumpy with books, clean paper, long over-due unanswered letters, freshly sharpened pencils, lists, and good intentions. The books remain unread, the pencils break their points, and the pad rest smooth and unblemished as the cloudless sky. No reading, no writing, no thoughts even—at least, not at first. (Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Gift from the Sea)

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I first read Gift from the Sea years ago on a beach trip. I lay on a terry cloth towel with the sound of the surf crashing in my ears, launching chapter one. Anne Morrow Lindbergh writes about how the sea rolls a person “back into the primeval rhythms of the sea-shore.” One falls under the spell of those rolling waves, the herons’ slow flapping wings, the wind in the pines. “And then,” she writes, “some morning in the second week, the mind wakes, comes to life again.”

Gift from the Sea Book Cover

I remember slapping the book shut and shoving it in my lumpy canvas tote. Some morning in the second week? Who gets two weeks at the beach? The Lindberghs, I guess. Anyone else?

I’m lucky to get a week at the beach per year, with two days of my one week devoted to traveling to and from our location. Two weeks? That’s the stuff of dreams. That’s for people like the Lindberghs. And retirees.

This year my husband and I talked about an early June trip to Florida. A week-long camping trip in the RV. “Wouldn’t two weeks be dreamy?” I said to my husband at breakfast one morning. He laughed. He knows what I crave, but one week was all we could manage.

Early June didn’t work. Maybe mid-June? Our schedules looked open, so we proceeded to plan. We searched our favorite campgrounds along the Florida panhandle but struggled to find enough sites. I ended up tracking down and reserving some at an unfamiliar location. We’d be moving from site to site each day in a campground we’d never been to, but the RV made that easy enough. I started reserving the sites, one at a time. I lined up a week’s worth.

Thank heavens, after ten months of exhausting family chaos, we were going to get a break.

Then we hit a snafu. A scheduling complication. Turns out we’d have to cancel.

I resisted. Before canceling, I waited, in case something opened up. My husband asked about the campsites and I told him I forgot to cancel. I was holding out hope.

An Unexpected Gift

At the last minute, we found a solution to the complication. The trip was on again. I still had the campsites and … an unexpected gift: we were able to extend our trip a few days. I scrambled to find a few more sites at such notice, but they opened up. In total, we would be gone almost two weeks.

Two weeks by the beach.

Who gets two weeks by the beach?

The Lindberghs, retirees, and, about 18 years after I slammed shut Lindbergh’s book in disgust: me.

I jammed a dozen books in bags, and packed my laptop, notebooks and pens, anticipating productive days in the RV, at campsite picnic tables, and on a folding chair by the shore. Late afternoon on a Monday in June, we pulled away from our house, wove through the neighborhood, and rumbled down the freeway in our old RV for a two-week beach trip.

Late on our second day of driving, we finally entered the area we would call home for most of our vacation. We rolled slowly through barren stretches of sand without a tree in site, the Gulf of Mexico on one side and a sliver of Pensacola Bay on the other. “Do we camp on the sand?” I asked no one in particular. None of us had been to Gulf Islands National Seashore, so no one knew where we’d camp.

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Eventually the terrain changed a little. In the campground, live oaks and saw palmettos grew in the sandy soil, creating natural divisions between each campsite. We backed into our spot and after setting up, walked to the beach along the boardwalk stretching up and over the dunes.

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The Gift of Rest

I needed the first full week to settle in. I carried my lumpy canvas bag jammed with books to and from the beach, managing to read an essay or two under the searing sun before giving up and giving in, conforming to the sand under my towel, resting.

“No reading, no writing, no thoughts even,” Lindbergh wrote, “at least, not at first.”

I lay empty, open.

By week two—a week two at the beach, for the first time in my life—my mind slowly came to life again. It began “to drift, to play, to turn over in gentle careless rolls like those lazy waves on the beach.”

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Productivity Needs Rest

Eventually, that playful, rested mind started to think about work again, to dream a little about the future. I read a book. I dared to make some plans. I jotted down notes and wrote.

The long rest renewed me. My mind awoke. I came alive again.

Though it seems counterintuitive, productivity increases with rest. An article in The New York Times explains, “[S]trategic renewal—including daytime workouts, short afternoon naps, longer sleep hours, more time away from the office and longer, more frequent vacations—boosts productivity, job performance and, of course, health…. [T]he greater the performance demand, the greater the need for renewal. ”

Renewal. That’s what I needed. With the gift of a two-week vacation, that’s what I got.

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We switched campgrounds the final two days and on the last night, we had to walk a mile to the beach. When we arrived, our feet slipped across the soft white sand one last time. We stood quietly by the shore. Two young men had ridden past us on bikes and were fishing by the time we got there. A family dressed in coordinating white tops and tan pants snapped pictures of each other in the golden light of the setting sun. We walked out to point where foam from retreating waves lingered on the sand.

“Patience, patience, patience, is what the sea teaches,” Lindbergh wrote.

Rest, rest, rest, is what the sea offers.

After a few minutes in the fading light, the kids turned and ran toward the water spigot to rinse off. My husband looked at me, raising his eyebrows as if to ask “You ready?” I smiled and looked one last time at the sea, then turned to the boardwalk. He took my hand, and we walked, the sound of the waves crashing against the shore growing softer as we headed toward home.

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Comments

  1. Lynn Hopper says

    July 3, 2015 at 11:57 am

    So glad you got this because I, of all people, know how much you needed it. Love you!

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      July 4, 2015 at 1:01 pm

      Thank you! It was exactly what we needed. Love you, too!

      Reply
  2. Linda Chontos says

    July 3, 2015 at 10:28 pm

    I love this, Ann. Every year about this time, I find my heart yearning for the sea. I can never seem to get enough of it. I’m so happy you had this restful time. I’m looking forward to reading the words that will come from this special time. Hugs, dear friend.

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      July 4, 2015 at 1:02 pm

      Oh, Linda, I hope you get this kind of break, too. You’ve had quite a long stretch of emotional challenges–you need some rest and renewal, too!

      Reply
  3. Sharon says

    July 4, 2015 at 8:44 am

    Ann,
    Years ago, I would take two-week vacations at my camp on a Maine lake. The first week was a winding down, and the second week became the true rest – a gift, for sure. I hear (and feel) your contented sigh in the closing of this vacation, as if you can now breathe easier.

    Your words led me to pull my copy of Gift from the Sea off the shelf. Nestled beside it was my copy of Return to the Sea: Reflections on Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s Gift from the Sea. Some books are meant to read and re-read. We all need to return to the sea – again, and again. Thanks for the reminder.

    P.S. A bit of trivia: Did you know the Lindberghs had a summer home in North Haven, Maine?

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      July 4, 2015 at 1:04 pm

      Your Maine camp sounds wonderful! I’m so glad you felt that sigh. It’s exactly how we felt, and even though I wrote this after I returned to the Midwest, the sigh lingered in me. That shows me how the two weeks was really rich and offered real renewal. I need to look for Return to the Sea–thanks for mentioning that! And I did not know they had a summer haven. So they had their main home, a place on Sanibel-Captiva, and then a summer place in Maine. Where else? Probably something in Europe?

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  4. David Rupert says

    July 4, 2015 at 9:46 am

    A lovely post. Makes me smile…and want to go the beach

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      July 4, 2015 at 1:04 pm

      David, knowing how much you are a mountain man, that makes me feel I have done something pretty spectacular…kind of luring you to a place you’re not normally drawn!

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  5. Megan Willome says

    July 14, 2015 at 12:28 pm

    I’m still in the “two weeks?” phase. But John and I are going to get five days at the beach the end of September. And soon, three days at Laity. I need to just sit and rest and not read or write or exercise or do much of anything.

    So glad you got that time and are feeling renewed. I enjoyed your podcast on the subject, too.

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      August 21, 2015 at 4:50 pm

      This is a month late–so glad to hear your response. Rest, rest, rest.

      Reply
  6. Brock Henning says

    July 19, 2015 at 7:01 am

    This was great, Ann, and timely for me. Will be heading to the beach later this summer…but only for one week minus those travel days! 😉 I’ve only had a two week vacation once, and although we didn’t leave town, I found what you said to be true. It took the first week to decompress and get in “vacation” mode, followed by a few restful days of what a vacation should feel like. Followed again by a few days thinking about all the work I had to get back to on Monday! One week just doesn’t cut it. 🙂

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      July 21, 2015 at 6:13 am

      Oh, Brock, I wish you could squeeze in a few extra days! Your vacation mental/emotional flow is so true for me, too, for years: decompress, think about what vacation should feel like, followed by preparation (or dread) for what we return to.

      Nevertheless, even a week at the beach is bliss. Enjoy!

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  7. Rebecca D. Martin says

    August 21, 2015 at 4:18 pm

    Hi, Ann. Laura Lynn Brown sent me your way after I mentioned Gifts from the Sea in an email to her. I read it for the first time at the beach a couple years ago, and I thought the exact same thing: Two weeks?? (And away from kids?) You’ve got to be kidding me! I continued reading and enjoyed the book very much – but it’s fun to find someone who had a similar response. And who can appreciate how that resting is so necessary for doing good work.

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    • Ann Kroeker says

      August 21, 2015 at 4:52 pm

      Rebecca, I’m delighted to meet you here. I cannot believe I got those two weeks–to be able to be gone for that long was 21 years in the making! My husband and two of the kids were with me. No nanny, but they’re older now and don’t drag on me in the way they did back when I threw the book across the room. 🙂

      Reply

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