Time for "Yes"
Throughout spring, my kids would come to me with requests to join their friends on outings such as sleepovers, birthday parties, and a production of “The Three Musketeers,” but I had to say no to almost everything. Something was already scheduled 97 percent of the time.
With spring winding down, however, our schedule is opening up.
The kids and I recently reviewed the week’s activities: soccer practice, cleaning day, and an afternoon class that three of them would attend.
My 14-year-old daughter was leaning back in a plastic chair, fiddling with a toy pirate hook as I added that we’d have to leave the house very early one morning.
“Why?” she asked.
“Well,” I began, “Mrs. Huber invited you two older girls to go with her family to King’s Island.”
My daughter leaped up, flinging the plastic hook into the air. “What?!” she exclaimed. “And you’re actually letting us go?”
King’s Island is a big amusement park a couple of hours from our home.
“Yes!” I said, grinning. “Yes, I’m letting you go.”
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Wow! That brought tears to my eyes! As I read, I realize that I said no to many, too many of those things when my boys were young. Justified by our situation, our poverty..too many harmful mindsets that sapped the Yes out of this mom! Wish I knew God then, as I do now. This may be one of the very, very few times that I wish I had that time back.
I would say Yes, a lot more.
The blessing? My adult boys are still home. And do to uncontrollable situations of our past, they are both a bit immature in some areas. So there is still parenting going on.
Earlier today I was spending time with God and wondering how I would deal with these adult men who persisted to behave in childish ways, so often. Let me clarify…both are in their very early 20’s. So how does God answer me?
Through His people! I believe I will be a yes person for a bit and see if that eases some of the angst around here…:)
Thank you so very much Ann! Thank you.
Andrea